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Well, hello there maniacs! I can call you that right? We’ve passed formalities ages ago!

Today’s topic is something we’ve all done or/and experienced before, and it is the famous FRIEND ZONE! (Also known as being friend-ed!)

 

Wait a sec! You don’t know what it means? No prob! I’ll give you a little description of it.

  What does friend zoning mean?

Simple, it is having a friend whom you would like to be more than just friends with, but they don’t. So, what they’d do is FRIEND ZONE you! As in, s/he would tell you things that would point to the fact that they’re not interested in you.

Still a bit lost? Don’t worry! I Have many examples to make this topic clearer for you. So next time you’re being friend zoned, don’t embarrass yourself any further and show that ‘always a friend, never a boy/girlfriend’ what they’re missing.

So, without stalling, here are the most famous friend-zoning hints your ‘I just wanna be friends’ would give you. Or maybe you could use (Although, I feel sorry for that other person.) :

To avoid repetition, let’s assume that you are the friend zonee (the victim).

1-Reminding you that you are just a friend:

  • You are such a good friend!
  • You are my best friend!
  • You’ll ALWAYS be my friend!
  • Best FRIEND FOREVER!!
  • You’re like my brother/sister!

Here, there’s repetition of the word friend/sibling, so that you understand there’s NO WAY you two are going to be together.

2-Blaming it on your friendship!

  • You’re a great guy/girl, but I don’t like you in that way.
  • I love you, but I don’t want to ruin our friendship. Because relationships never last, but friendships DO! (hmm.. -raise mah hand- Guilty?)

I think that’s a kick below the belt! It’s totally unfair, because that’d make you (The unfortunate friend zonee) HOOKED on him/her! But that’s another story… So, let’s just stick to our topic.

3-Telling you about their love interest (Whom by the way, isn’t YOU!)

  • I really like that girl/guy (who isn’t you!) I want to be with him/her.
  • My lover/crush this! My lover/crush that! S/He did this and that and blah blah blah..
  • ‘The lucky idiot’s name’ is soooo ‘compliment’ and soo ‘rain of compliments’ I soooo love him/her (again, not you!)

In this example, your ‘JUST friend’ is boring you with their love interest stories to indirectly tell you that the place you want to be in for them is already booked/occupied! And don’t get your hopes up! It might never be available even if it doesn’t with the other person.

4-Sharing with you details about their lives they wouldn’t share with their lovers:

  • -Telling you something about their intimate, personal lives-
  • -Telling you something that isn’t so “attractive” about him/her-
  • -Sharing too much details with you..-

Basically here, they would just tell you things they wouldn’t normally tell to their love interest.  Thus, referring to the fact you will not be more than a friend to them.

5-Pushing you away:

  • I’m sorry, I can’t hang out right now, I’m really busy. (giving this excuse many times)
  • I’m sorry, I completely forgot we had plans. We’ll do it another time k?
  • -Avoiding you as much as possible-
  • -Acting as if they don’t understand your ‘I like you’ hints, and sending you way off..-
  • -Stop being so nice to you because they thought it gave you the “wrong idea”-
  • -Being cold and acting so awkward around you..-
  • -Being careful and thinking before saying anything around you..-

This is a pretty common friend zoning act. And it’s where usually all friendships that have suffered from F. Z. situation go to. You would start acting awkward around each other, feeling nervous and being careful of what you can say next that would give the other person the wrong idea. That’s like the before-final phase of the friendship. Next, would be a major breaking up fight or a simple, peaceful ‘going on the different directions’ separation.

This is basically how F. Z. is done! I have to admit I have friend-ed before and I actually used all those methods! Therefore, just so you know, I’m speaking from experience.

Is friend zoning someone a good thing? Not really. But you can’t expect someone who always thought of you as a friend to suddenly fall for you because you did. So, take my advice! If you like someone, don’t get closer to them using the ‘I just wanna be friends’ excuse! But be honest! Tell them you’re interested in them! If they’re not,  be clear by saying “Ok! No prob. Let’s be friends if you want, but remember, I like you! And NOT as a FRIEND!” Then work your butt off to make them see you’re worth the try!

And if you do have a friend you’re interested in, Don’t confess without giving it a though! Think of the friendship you’re most likely going to ruin! And try seeing if that person’s interested in you or not.

Bottom line, guys, It’s not so hard to win a girl’s heart. Every girl likes an honest gentleman who at least tries to understand her.

And bottom line, girls, It’s not so hard to get a boy either, but there’s more than one way to get him. If you try the wrong one, all you’ll be getting are the wrong “ones”. But if you try the right way, like being nice, being true and especially being yourself, The right guy will come knocking on your doorstep!

And before I wrap this up people, here’s a couple of advice:

-Do not misinterpret friendly behavior as flirting..

-If the person you like rejected you and you can’t seem to win them over. It means it just wasn’t the right person, even  if they really seem perfect for you. But DON’T, and I insist DON’T YOU EVER let them use you under the excuse that you “might” be together one day..

Last but not least, if there’s someone who likes you, before friend zoning them, try giving them a chance. At least in your mind, consider them! Because they might be the best thing that could happen to you. But beware from Pricks!

That’s it for not, Sorry for being too talkative/typist!

Until next time,

Stay crazy!

Bye Byez~

 

hey there crazies! I know. Pretty weird title right?

Sorry for not making a post in a while, I’ve been busy trying to survive this hard, cruel world! Being beaten everyday by this unfair hateful life, but I still have the time to come to you and try to draw a smile on your faces. A smile I couldn’t draw on mine.. Naah, just kidding! I’ve had a long first week of school.. Having a life really keeps you busy from the internet! :p

Well today’s post is interesting, and weird.

I got a cute little puppy last Friday, her name is Lily~  She’s an almost 4 months old adorable little white poodle.

I took her to the beach on Saturday. It turned out Lily was a bit afraid of the water, so giving her a bath wouldn’t be that easy. That’s why I thought if I’m with her while bathing her it would make her feel less nervous, it’s like what mommies do with their newborns.. And since I live in an apartment and we don’t have a yard I’d have to clean her up in the bathroom. So, I got in the tub got  her on my lap and started pouring some warm water on her..(usual dog bath.) Now, I don’t need to tell how to bathe your dog, I’m just going to give you the up and down sides of bathing with your dog:

Up sides:

less agitated dog.

-you get cleaned as well.

-your dog will be less afraid when seeing you get wet too, which would make them more comfortable when you’re bathing them next time.

-The more activities you do with your dog the better it is for your relationship together.

-A cleaner dog. Duh!

-You’ll get to have a nice hot bath after your dog’s turn’s done!

Down sides:

-You’ll smell like a dog if you don’t take a bath after bathing your dog.

-Your dog will probably shake to dry off, so you better be prepared to be very, very wet!

-if you have an agitated dog with long nails, there’s gonna be some scratching so you’d want to wear long clothes you wouldn’t mind getting wet.

Warnings:

-If you don’t wanna see a naked cat, don’t bathe your dog cuz that’s what you’ll get.

-I didn’t try this with any of my cats. If you want to, I advise you to wear thick pants and a long sleeves shirt, plus mask and gloves for protection.

-when it’s time to get your dog dried out you’d probably want to put them in a room where you wouldn’t mind having anything wet.. Because there’s gonna be a mess! Ofc if you already own/ed a dog, you know what I’m talking about.

-This is a post to help someone with a pet who’s scared of getting wet not a pervert who’s looking for some fun..

Well, that’s it for this post! I hope you liked it. One more thing, having a pet/s is a great thing! They’re super fun and cute, but its a big responsibility. So, for both your sake, be prepared for their trouble!

Until next time,

stay crazy

bye bye~

Hey there crazy readers, or crazy readers wanna be, or sane people! (and always –> o.O)

Today we’re gonna talk about a very important matter, which is how to escape from answering an awkward/personal, or just none of anybody’s business kind of questions.

So, whether you’re a kid, a teenager or an adult.. Everybody has to face one of these questions you don’t really like to answer. Some of us are quick “reactors”, which means they either find an excuse not to answer the question or just make up a lie to cover it up in no time. Others aren’t that quick or just don’t like to lie, and sometimes we’re just not that lucky to escape from the question! Especially if the interrogator is  one of your parents, or worse, both.

So, as I’m writing this post I’ll try to think of some excuses/diversions:

  1. A lot of my answers to people that aren’t so close to me, or not, are “It’s personal”.
  2. Some of my reactions towards people that are close to me are “Why are you always asking me questions?” -get angry and start complaining- (or what ever you do best. That’s a great diversion)
  3. When I asked this on fb most said “Ignore them”. It’s not always possible, but maybe.. Unless you’re good at ignoring people.
  4. Some of my friends on fb actually said to just make “…………”. So when I asked how to make dots in real life, one answered I can mumble “dot dot dot” (He was joking). But actually that’s not so bad, you can try saying something weird, or funny or just distracting in any way, they’ll think you’re crazy and maybe you can laugh about it and run away before they remember the question.
  5. Pretend like you didn’t hear the question and run to the bathroom. (You might wanna stay for a while there.) Note: This option is not for the faint of heart!
  6. you have to have a plan B! Something that the interrogator is interested in, something they’re always talking about (If I had to chose a topic for my mom it’d totally be my neighbor or my Dad’s family.) So when they’re about to ask, execute immediately plan B!
  7. Pretend it reminds you of something tragic that happened to you. Just look down, put your hand on your head and say in a troubled voice: I don’t wanna talk about it. (Only works if you’re an expert in drama queening.)
  8. be creative, scream dramatically and run away to a bathroom or something, say that something inside your clothes stung you or burnt you or something.. (Just pinch yourself or what ever if they asked for a proof.) Note: this probably won’t work if you’re not dressed. And, DO NOT HURT YOURSELF! I will not be held responsible if you do.
  9. Last but not least, just be honest and say: It’s none of your business (rudely. I do not recommend that.) Or say it more politely: I’m sorry, I can’t give you an answer, Because I do not want to. (Again, be creative! You can be nicer..or not.)

You probably noticed that there’s only 9 ways/solutions, well I want you guys/girls to tell me how YOU escape from unwanted questions.

I hope this helped. If not, then help me help you or just help yourselves!

By the way, do I talk (type) too much?

Anyway. Until next time,

Stay crazy!

Bye byez~